Today’s
parents approach the teen years with great anxiety and trepidation.
These are the peer pressure years, the years during which the child
begins to declare his or her independence and move toward emancipation.
The problems that develop in the parent-teen relationship, says John,
are usually due to parents who don’t want to give the teen enough
freedom and a teen who wants more freedom than he or she can handle. Is
there a middle ground? Yes, there is, and John describes it in terms of
a macro-management style that focuses on the “Six C’s of
Teen-Proofing”: curfew, cash, car, conflict, consequences, and
colleagues (a.k.a. co-conspirators). The parenting style that John
provides all but insures that teens will take responsible control of
their own destinies during the most significant years of their
childhoods and approach emancipation with confidence and purpose. Footnote:
This presentation, which is based on John’s best-selling book of the
same title, can also be delivered as a 3-hour mini-skillshop.
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